From Potty to Toilet

This is a collaborative post in association with Andrex, all words and opinions are my own.

Potty training

So you’ve got a recently potty trained child, well done! But sadly that’s not it done and dusted. They know when they need to sit on the potty and if you’re lucky they might even wipe afterwards! That’s all well and good but how you do prepare to send them off into the big bad world of normal toilets without hovering behind them with a packet of washlets? I was lucky and managed to have dry day and night scenario with my toddler within a week, and very few accidents once she was potty trained. However a few months down the line we were still struggling with two things: Cleanliness & Tackling public loos.

A few weeks in to using the loo the novelty of wiping seemed to have worn off completely, but with preschool just around the corner it was something that I really want to get on top of and make sure that it is happening every time. I really wanted pants to still be clean at the end of the day rather than worrying about taking spares out and about but most importantly I wanted to make sure that that she understood the importance of keeping herself clean so she feels healthy and fresh.

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using the ‘loo’ in the wilderness… okay in our tent but close enough!

At home we have toilet roll and moist toilet wipes so she can use these, and I’ve started to carry a pack of moist wipes when we are out and about too. However the struggle seemed to be that she was so reluctant to go to the toilet because colouring/ playing with playdoh/ watching Frozen for the six hundredth time is far more exciting and she wants to get back to it as soon as humanly possible. Sometimes she didn’t even pull her trousers back up and comes tripping back into the living room in her haste to get back to her previous activity with her leggings round her ankles! To try and combat this I started to remind her each time she heads to the loo that she must wipe, ideally wet and dry. I can’t always be with her when she goes to the loo at home due to having a baby too but on the times that I can go into the bathroom with her I gently remind her and help when needed to make sure she wipes properly, and then flushes everything away. There are days when she doesn’t always get it quite right but it is a lot better and I am far less worried about her being at preschool and using the loo independently, or at friends’ houses on play dates. Thankfully for us hand washing hasn’t been an issue at home and as long as she can reach the sink and taps when we’re out of the house she’s happy to wash her hands with no reminders.

The second issue that we experienced was a complete lack of enthusiasm for public loos. Now to be completely honest I don’t blame her! They’re often not the nicest of places and although I always try and visit ‘nice’ loos in department stores if we have to go when we’re in town it’s not always possible! It’s not healthy to not ‘go’ when the urge appears and I have spent a long time explaining this to her, in the hopes that she won’t hold it till we get home, especially as an accident could have dented her confidence in the early days. I found that sometimes the cubicles are so small that we can’t both get in without keeping the door open, but she hates having other people see her on the loo, which is fair enough! In this instance we’ll head to the end cubicle so there is no passing foot traffic! Another issue is that toilets are so much bigger than a potty, but you can get fold out loo seats that you can carry fairly discretely to help that unsteady feeling, and so that she doesn’t have to put her hands on the seat to stop her bottom from going in the bowl! As she gets bigger I’m sure she’ll be more confident on normal sized loos, but most pre-schools and primary schools have child sized toilets for little bums!

 

I am hoping that by this time next year when we’re preparing to send Athena off to primary school neither she nor I will be worrying about using the loo and can spend time having fun getting prepared for the start of a big adventure! A couple of months ago I went to a brainstorming session with Andrex and some other fantastic bloggers, plus parenting expert Fi from Childcare is Fun to help put together a great tool for parents of kids about to start primary school: The Countdown to School calendar. It contains all the things you’d need to think about in the weeks leading up to your child starting in reception class and is a great tool for making the run up that bit easier! You can download it here.

 

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11 Comments

  1. 21st September 2016 / 12:27 am

    It is so hard to keep their confidence whilst maintaining the speed between the urge and finding a decent loo!

  2. 21st September 2016 / 9:32 am

    Great post, will definitely take your advice on board as we’re currently potty training Harry. Amelia would never use the potty and went straight to use the toilet. x

  3. 22nd September 2016 / 12:45 pm

    My little boy is almost 2, so we have all this to come soon.

  4. 22nd September 2016 / 1:18 pm

    We potty trained my daughter a couple of months ago and we always reminded her to wipe, flush and then wash her hands, which she does now every time bless her. We’ve luckily had no problems, other than going a bit overboard with the soap haha! x

  5. Vicki
    22nd September 2016 / 2:11 pm

    James is still terrified of public loos! We have to carry a travel seat as he’s convinced he’s going to fall down the loo!

  6. 22nd September 2016 / 9:32 pm

    I’ve potty trained 3 kids now, and they all throw different challenges up!

  7. nicola
    22nd September 2016 / 10:13 pm

    & then Don’t forget to teach her to be able to do a wild wee, (forest school style) when out in the countryside. (yes thats possibly no paper and without peeing down her socks or getting the trousers and pants wet. )

    • 26th September 2016 / 12:09 am

      Good idea! At the moment she hates the idea of not sitting on something, hopefully she’ll get over it soon!

  8. 25th September 2016 / 10:34 am

    I am hoping for the best too. He uses wipes himself when he goes wee wees but when he does the second one he always needs help. Hopefully that develops in a year.

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